Nine chapters examining how denial and nihilism combine in men to excuse, minimise, and sustain sexism — from the everyday to the catastrophic. From the mental load to violence against women. From microaggressions to the medicalisation gap.
Not a book about hating men. A book about what we do.
Register InterestAI is taking white-collar work. Careers are ending at 40. The financial hit is obvious. What isn't talked about is the identity hit — men who defined themselves entirely by what they did for a living, suddenly without it.
Not Your Job is one-on-one advisory for men navigating that loss. It's not therapy. It's not outplacement. It starts with two questions.
"Do you know who you are?"
"Okay — who are you?"
The work is done when you can answer both honestly.
Liam Walsh is a Sydney-based author and brand creator. He coined the term denihilism to describe men's collective refusal to acknowledge sexism — the way denial and nihilism combine to keep women's experiences invisible and men's behaviour unexamined.
His work spans a book, an apparel line, an essay series, and one-on-one advisory for men navigating identity loss after career displacement.
He is not here to hate men. He's here because he is one.
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